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A Women’s Retreat

November 15th, 2009

images-3 15-53-17I’ve just had four women on a Learning Retreat here at Byrongerry.  I was a wee bit anxious in preparing for it because I’ve only hosted individual people or couples in the past.  Would my energy hold up – in my roles of coach, chef and host??

I’m delighted to report that my energy did hold up and, at their final review over a cup of tea on the deck, each woman said their hopes had been met and that they were leaving feeling relaxed and renewed.

The women each had some coaching time with me and also attended a Self-Leadership with a Horse session with a colleague who lives nearby.  I used a combination of Leadership Coaching and Vision Coaching processes in the women’s one on one time with me. Those I’d worked with before re-visited and renewed their vision while those who were being coached by me for the first time worked on a range of issues including, for one, that old chestnut of work/life balance.images-1

I’m still pondering whether I will promote the Learning Retreat for more than singles or couples – it was a lot of work – yet, when I remember the happy conversations and laughter coming from the Cloud House building while they were in residence, I know the shared experience for these four women was one of the highlights of their stay.

Let’s hear it for the women of Australia!

October 30th, 2009

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I’ve also written about this in the summer edition of my newsletter  but I want to blog about it too.

My consulting life began in 1985 as an equal opportunity consultant.  Back then I naively thought that equal opportunity and affirmative action law and policy would lead to a gender balance at all levels of the Australian workforce.  As we women say, “we’ll know when we’ve ‘made it’ when they promote incompetent women as well as men”.

Yet, to my horror, I’ve just learned that the number of women on boards and in executive positions has declined in the past 3 years in Australia.

My optimism has risen once again since having Frances Feenstra as guest speaker at a recent dinner for achieving women in Melbourne.  Frances is a member of the 100% Project, a not for profit company with a vision of “seeing 100% of Australia’s leadership talent, female and male, equally contributing to our social and economic future”.  Hurray for them and I wish them very well in their impressive endeavours!  If you would like to know more about the 100% Project contact them at info@theonehundredpercentproject.com.au.

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Vision Coaching

October 20th, 2009
images-1“What is it?” a colleague asked me while I was in Sydney last week.

“Well, it’s a process my late partner Des created for me a long time ago when I was feeling stuck in my career, and it helped me work out what I wanted to be when I grew up.  And here I am over 20 years on still loving being a Leadership and Vision coach!”

Des and I then wondered whether this visioning process would be of value to some of our coaching clients and this is when AnD’s Vision Coaching service was born.

Vision Coaching takes a minimum of 6 hours and, with the help of a work book, clients are facilitated through a process that helps them get in touch with their ideal future and then set action plans and timelines to make this dream a reality.  Some clients do their visioning as an intensive during a Learning Retreat at my home inland from Byron Bay while others do it over a series of sessions in their home city.

I have facilitated dozens – maybe even hundreds – of clients through AnD’s visioning process and the feedback I get from people is that it works.  Some tell me it reassured them they were already on the right path and enabled them to take the best next steps, while for others it helped them move in a totally new direction.images

Here’s what happened for Mary Keely, former Director of HR for Pacific Brands, after she did AnD’s Vision Coaching process:
“With the appointment to this role I exceeded my original career vision because this was the HUGE role in a very large organisation that I once would not have dared stretch for.  This is what is possible, this is the power of vision!”

The power of an and/both way of viewing the world

September 1st, 2009

I’ve recently experienced a first for me – I’ve had the privilege of providing a Vision Coaching session for three generations of a family: a mother, her son, his wife, their adult daughter and her partner.  The mother/grandmother and the adult daughter and her partner live in Canada.  The son/husband is Canadian and lives with his Australian wife in Australia where the session took place. This couple met in Canada, married in Australia and then lived in Canada for ten years.  For the past ten years they have been living, together with their three younger daughters, in Australia.  At this coaching session they articulated a five year vision of living a two hemisphere life in Canada and Australia.Australia2

To help them resolve what was feeling like a geographical impossibility I showed them a Dilemma Resolution model. This model suggests that with a clear vision of the future. we can let go of our western conditioning and embrace an and/both (yin/yang) way of being in the world.

The shift in mindset that this enabled around the coaching table led to some creative planning on how the Australian based members of this three generational family can make their  vision a reality and live in both Canada and Australia over the next decade.

CanadaPostscript: This is a family of talented entrepreneurs who already share business interests in both the northern and southern hemispheres (see wwwbushmarketing.com) so, in my view, the sky’s the limit for them once they turn their and/both plans into reality!

The power of vision!

August 22nd, 2009

I’ve just coached a long term client who told me she has resigned from what all those around her saw as her fabulous corporate role.  Between this role and her last equally big corporate role she’d explored her vision and values at a Learning Retreat at my home inland from Byron Bay.  The primary focus of her vision was to ‘enjoy the journey’.

Enjoy the journey

Over the past few months, as the scope of her role grew and she found she was being expected to do more and more tasks that didn’t play to her strengths, she told me she began dreading Monday mornings and longing for the next weekend – in contradiction to her commitment to enjoy every day.  In fact she said she’d begun to feel she was gathering “black soot on her soul”.  She made it clear to me that it wasn’t the fault of the organisation – she was just not a good fit.

Oh “the power of vision,” I proclaimed then added that it takes courage to have a vision, yet once you do it sure helps you be clear about whether you’re on the right path for you!  No more “black soot” for this woman – she’s off to Earth and moonexplore the possibilities of a portfolio career having thanked me for the clarity she got from AnD’s Vision Coaching process.

Can women ‘have it all,’ ie motherhood and a career?

August 13th, 2009

Work and familyAt the Byron Bay Writers Festival last weekend I attended a session at which Cheryl Kernot (ex leaders of the Democrats) talked about how hard it was having to commute regularly to Canberra as a Federal politician whilst raising her daughter, and Anne Summers (women’s advisor to Bob Hawke and Paul Keating) said she chose not to have children because she reckoned she couldn’t have been a good mum and fulfilled her career ambitions.

Anne and Cheryl are now in their 60s so ‘praps things have improved for women I thought to myself.  But then my mind went back to the piece I wrote in the current Value Adding newsletter about the McKinsey Centred Leadership program for their emerging leaders, especially their younger women.  The article about the program suggested that “women more often opt out (of corporate life) because they carry the double burden of motherhood”.

This suggests it’s still tough for women who  want to ‘have it all’ in terms of a successful career and being the kind of mum they want to be.  Sure there is now parental leave embedded in policy and practice.  Sure there are more flexible working hours that makes the juggling act of career and parenting more do-able than in Cheryl’s, Anne’s and my day. But both these women declared, and I agree that, until organisations are led by more women and the kind of men who truly embrace the value of work places that are genuinely family friendly, it will continue to be tough for women to ‘have it all’.

And, just for the record, we AnD coaches support quite a number of executive and high potential women to be the best they can be at work and at home through our Leadership Coaching and Vision Coaching.

Thoughts about leadership on my morning walk

August 3rd, 2009

RubyAs my golden labrador Ruby and I enjoyed our morning walk today my thoughts went to the Adversity Quotient referred to in my latest Value Adding newsletter.  My mind then jumped to Goleman’s emotional intelligence (EI) and the fact that people with high EI are able to self regulate.  The link I made was that those of us who have a high tolerance level for managing adversity are likely to also be able to regulate their emotions.  I then found myself thinking about leadership and the fact that it’s not enough for leaders to have a high IQ and be technically competent – they must also control their emotions in highly charged situations.  I hear anecdotally that bullying by senior managers is not uncommon – surely this suggests a lack of ability for self control and self regulation and the urgent need for some leadership coaching support to correct this.

About then I decided to go back to enjoying Ruby’s company and the view from my road.

Cloud House beckons

July 21st, 2009

Learning RetreatHere we are in the middle of a long, cold winter.  You might have imagined a Learning Retreat in Cloud House as a place to be in the warmer weather.  The good news is the queen size bed has an electric blanket and the heater gets the space cosy warm in next to no time.  So, if you’re wondering whether some time out for some mid winter reflections in my beautiful region sounds like a good idea – let me know.

Value Adding EDITION #53 WINTER 2009

July 19th, 2009

KATE RAMSAY AND THE AnD COACHES WELCOME YOU TO OUR STAYING IN TOUCH NEWSLETTER.

In Learning Moments we look at the emerging field of NeuroLeadership and a tool to measure resilience. In Did You Know?  we announce our new look website.  We introduce you to our latest coach in Meet the AnD Coaches, and the Good Read in this edition is an article on how talented women make a difference. Our  AnD Stories are called the Dance of Diversity and the Cape Crusader – who is Noel Pearson.

LEARNING MOMENTS

Kate writes:

NeuroLeadership

A NeuroLeadership Institute has been established with the research objective of improving leadership effectiveness by developing a science for leadership and leadership development that takes into account the physiology of the mind and the brain – an area thus far ignored in management and leadership research.

The institute is taking an interdisciplinary approach to exploring the neural basis of leadership and management practices such as decision making, problem solving, emotional regulation, collaborating with and influencing others and the process of facilitating change.  See neuroleadership.org 

Adversity Quotient

The Psychology section of the May ’08 edition of BOSS magazine asks:  “if you accidentally delete an important email, on a scale of one to five, how long will the consequences of this last? – one is ‘forever’ and five is ‘quickly passes’ ?”  Your answer to this and about 100 other questions will demonstrate your capacity for resilience and can form the basis of a profile called your Adversity Quotient (AQ).

Developed by Paul Stoltz, the AQ Profile covers  responses to small disasters such as spilling your coffee all over yourself through to the trauma of the death of a loved one.  The profile measures four dimensions of resilience:  Control, Ownership, Reach and Endurance. 

Stolz (peaklearning.com): Who wins?  The person who has the right combination of AQ, virtues and strengths.  .. If you have the right strengths as a human being, do the right things, have AQ to bring those out consistently … you’ll live to be a highly respected and admirable, if not great, human being.

DID YOU KNOW?

Our website (andconsulting.org) has had a face lift!  It has a new design courtesty of Bush Digital Branding and Marketing that matches the look of our coaching and promotion documents.  The text has been culled, the testimonials have been updated and we have focussed our minds on the importance of having key words in the text to make AnD easily found online. 

The Value Adding newsletter is also included as a blog so take a look at http://andconsulting.org/blog and let us know what you think.

MEET THE AnD COACHES

AnD Consulting is best descrbed as a virtual organisation It works on a collaborative model with Kate Ramsay as MD and Lead Coach being supported by associate coaches.  Each associate coach is  accredited in AnD’s Leadership Coaching methodology and they take coaching referrals from AnD on a commission basis.

There are now ten AnD Associate Coaches who are based in Melbourne, Sydney, Canberra and northern NSW.  Our newest member is Melbourne based and his name is Russell Fakira.  Take a look at the About Us section of AnD’s website to learn more about Russell and the nine other AnD coaches.

A GOOD READ

Kate writes: For those of you who share my concern that the number of women in executive roles in corporate Australia remains low  Centered Leadership: How talented women thrive is worth a look.  It was in the number 4, 2008 edition of The McKinsey Quarterly.  Written by Joanne  Barsh, Susie Cranston and Rebecca A. Craske it describes how the McKinsey Leadership Project set out to find what drives and sustains successful female leaders. The purpose of the project was to find ways to help younger women navigate their paths to leadership as well as to find some new ways that organizations can retain their high potential women. 

The project team acknowledged three characteristics that particularly distinguish women from their male counterparts in the workplace:  women more often opt out, they carry the double burden of motherhood and management and they tend to experience more emotional ups and downs than most men. 

The project interviewed 85 women around the world who are successful in diverse fields.  Some lead 10,000 people or more, others five or even fewer but each of these women has the goal of making a difference in the wider world.  As well as the interviews, the team   looked at the academic literature, consulted experts in leadership, psychology, organizational behaviour and biology and conferred with hundreds of colleagues at McKinsey. 

From the data generated the project team developed a model called Centered Leadership.  The model has five broad and interrelated dimensions that are brought alive in the article through case studies about some of the 85 women interviewed.  The dimensions are:

Meaning – finding your strengths and putting them to work in the service of an inspiring purpose.

Managing energy – knowing where your energy comes from, where it goes, and what you can do to manage it.

Positive framing – adopting a more constructive way to view your world, expand your horizons and gain the resilience to move ahead even when bad things happen.

Connecting – identifying who can help you grow, building stronger relationships, and increasing your sense of belonging.

Engaging – finding your voice, becoming self-reliant and confident by accepting opportunities and the inherent risks they bring, and collaborating with others.

At the time of writing McKinsey had introduced the Centered Leadership model to a thousand women and half as many men in regional and global learning programs.  As a result some participants had sought sponsors for the first time, others were giving their careers greater focus by putting up their hands for new projects and many reported an increase in their energy and motivation.   Surely all good early signs that the program is having an impact.

Contact Kate if  you would like the article.

TWO AnD STORIES

AnD Consulting is named to represent an and/both way of being rather than the either/or way our western conditioning taught us.  When we view the world through an and/both lens we can embrace concepts that would otherwise appear to be mutually exclusive to each other. 

To illustrate this and/both mindset in action our first AnD story is from an essay in the Sep/Oct, 2008 edition of Resurgence Magazine – Diverse Solutions for the 21st century (resurgence.org).  Satish Kumar, in a piece on sustainability called the Dance of Diversity writes: 

The way forward is in the harmonious relationship between

Ecology and economy

Idealism and realism

Nature and culture

Environment and development

Tradition and progress

Unity and diversity.

Our second AnD story, called Cape Crusader, is taken from an essay written by John Hirst in the June, 2009 edition of The Australian Literary Review.  It is about Noel Pearson and his book Up from the Mission: Selected Writings (Black Inc). 

Hirst suggests Pearson gives the most considered account of his position on the way forward for his people in a chapter in his book called The Quest for a Radical Centre. The chapter explores the tension in social policy between rights versus responsibilities, social order versus liberty, efficiency versus equality, and structure versus behaviour and he pronounces, “the resolution of each … lies in their dialectical synthesis, not in the absolute triumph of one side or in a weak compromise”. 

Pearson believes that to achieve this synthesis there must be constant tension between pragmatism and idealism:

Lofty idealism without pragmatism is worthless. What is pragmatism without idealism?  At best it is management, but not leadership.”

Food for thought indeed to leaders all!

Blogging AnD

July 19th, 2009

AnD Consulting is taking a bold step and entering the world of web 2.0 with a blog. Look for leadership coaching insites from Kate Ramsay and the AnD team.